I was talking with a client the other day. We were discussing how she might achieve more
success in her life and have things go the way she envisioned. As we got close to finding some solutions,
she suddenly blurted out “But I’m not ready yet!” There was a pause and then we both laughed.
The irony of success is that it often comes when we least
expect it and can often take us by surprise.
The question is……do we need to be ready for it?
One of the quirks of our humanness is the feeling that we
need to get all “our ducks in a row” before anything good can happen to us or
any progress can be made. We have our
plan and we must stick to it at all times.
If we falter or alter its stages, bad luck may descend on us and the
ultimate goal will be lost from view……or so we believe. Following the steps of our plan will lead us
to that state of readiness that we believe is necessary before everything falls
into place.
What nonsense this is!
The truth is that life is messy. Yes, we can devise plans and that is not
always a bad idea. Plans can give us a
pathway to take a step on and start the ball rolling towards our desires. However, if we are rigid about what we want
to do and how we want to do it, we run the risk of not being able to flow with
what life delivers and we will be unable to adapt to the unpredictability and
messiness of what results.
The need to be ready is just another way to try to manage
our fear of this unpredictability and the unknown of the future. It doesn’t matter whether we succeed or fail
(in our own view), fear of either state can hold us back from accepting what
life (or you may call it the Universe or a Higher Power or God or whatever you
choose) delivers to us.
Whether we are ready to accept success depends on how
wholeheartedly we are invested in wanting that form or result in the first
place. This means that we may think we know what we want, but have we
truly thought it through? Evidence shows
that many people want to win the lottery but, out of those that do, very few
are ready to accept the responsibility that comes with receiving such a large
sum of money. Most blast through it all
in a very few years and end up worse off than they were before. They were not ready.
What was great about my client’s declaration was that she,
unlike many, was aware of her dilemma.
She thought she truly desired success but, when she examined what that
meant, her fear kicked in and she had to apply the brakes to the process.
One of the secrets of those who appear to be successful to
the rest of us waiting in the wings, is that they are always ready to not only achieve success but accept it. They may be fearful too but they are able to
put that on one side and go with the gifts that the Universe has delivered to
them, adapting and going with the flow as it comes. Most importantly, they are willing to accept
the responsibility that comes with success……and there are always
responsibilities attached……and to carry them out to the best of their ability.
Are you ready for success, not according to your plan but
whenever life delivers it to you? If you
are hesitant, maybe it is time to reassess what you truly desire for if you use
that as your guide, you will not be driven by your fears and, although
sometimes caution may slow you down, you will not have to apply the brakes to
your progress through your unreadiness.
Here’s to always
being ready!